It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our uncomplicated sign up form and login to the site.
This step is elective but will seriously boost your chances of getting interest from other members on the website. Tell people about yourself, your interests and upload a nice photograph of yourself.
Utilise our website's advanced search to spot members who suit your criteria. Or just look through listings and spot people that appear interesting.
Identified someone who ticks all the boxes? Send a letter to them or just a wink and wait for their response. With a little luck you'll be on your way to locating your suitable match.
It's really quick